Tuesday, December 17, 2013

December 10th Letter!!!

Mom,
 
This past week has been so interesting. There is so much I could talk about, however, I will be brief, but detailed. I have been pondering a lot about Christmas and about what great peace it truly fills our souls with if we let its spirit sink deep within us. This is a time of great service and a time for family, and warm memories, and a time of togetherness. As we were teaching this last week, I realized that the Gospel aligns so perfectly with this season of hope and joy. I was reading in 1st Nephi and I found an incredible scripture that I chose to link to this special time of year. It is found in the 13th chapter, which talks about "the great and abominable church." However, we cannot solely focus on darkness; although there is opposition to all things, we should never forget our Savior and the light and understanding He brings to us so freely if we choose to accept it and act on it in a righteous manner. This especially applies to this wondrous Christmas season! He truly is the "light and life of the world." I do not remember the exact verse, but in the same verse it explains the doctrine of Christ or the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ in such a sweet manner, then it goes on to talk about publishing peace to the tops of the mountains or something to that effect. The point is that Jesus Christ is the great Shepherd, and the Prince of peace over all the land; this Earth in these latter-days and since the beginning of the world.
 
To relate a miraculous experience from this past week... We were sitting in our apartment one day making some phone calls to set up some appointments when we felt that we needed to stop by the Guzman-Romano families' home. We dropped by and knocked on the door, but that wasn't enough. We knew that we could ring the doorbell when we saw a little child scurry past, because that was what we were afraid of, waking this little girl. As soon as we touched the doorbell a teenager opened the door and hollered come in; in Spanish of course! We went in and we found the entire family home, including their son and his wife from Juarez visiting. We chatted with them, and found out what they had been taught, testified about the magnificent Plan of Salvation, invited them to come to church and the Christmas activity in our ward, and then left them with a prayer and were on our way.
 
On Friday was this activity and it was a fiesta! However, it was much different than the Union 4th Christmas shin-dig, complete with the big-band stylings of the Reunion Band. Instead, there was a trio-mariachi band of older men with mustaches, and they were going around to peoples' tables and playing romantic classics of the Mexican culture. It was quite a new experience to me to see a celebration, instead of a dinner, a Nativity play, and maybe some music throughout the night. I went to take a picture, funny thing was I had left my camera in the freezing cold truck and the batteries were freezing frozen as our family would say. Although, I was upset at first, I realized that it was not my purpose to snap pictures as if I were a tourist at this party, but instead to build and establish trust and relationships with the members. That is exactly what I did, I sat with my companions at the Penaloza's table. We talked to them and their friend that they had invited, but she didn't say a whole lot, however, what she did say is that Brother and Sister Penaloza could go to her house and talk more about the Gospel. There were several little miracles this week just like this one!
 
A miracle doesn't have to be a big extravaganza, it just doesn't work like that. Especially in relation to the Gospel, and surrounding this time of year. One of the greatest blessings you can receive is the opportunity to serve some one else and share the Gospel through your testimony of service and its importance. Elder Berrett and I gave a training in District Meeting our first week here, and we related true conversion or progress links with the attributes of Christ. They can be found in Preach My Gospel in Chapter Six.
 
My invitation to you all is to this week or when you get the chance during this holiday season. Pick one of these attributes, set a goal, and then as a New-Years resolution do your best to demonstrate this attribute in your daily life through all that you do and say. Mine at the moment is humility and I have seen a monumental force over take me as a missionary to be able to become like our Savior Jesus Christ. All of these attributes link together, and there are miracles almost everywhere you look you just have to be precise, and pro-active. Yes the world is busy, with the challenges of every-day life, but these truly are the Latter-Days so let us be ever faithful in "pushing our hand to the plow." May we share the Gospel to our loved-ones, friends, family, relatives, neighbors, co-workers, and whole-heartedly accept Elder Ballard's invitation to invite just one person to an activity, Sacrament meeting, or another church-run event. There is no greater joy than being charitable and serving some one else in any way. The smallest things are of the greatest joy and happiness to us, if we but act and react in the way of the Lord Jesus Christ!
 
As far as working with two companions goes....It has been a blessing to have another companion to help me in the hardest of times. Right now, one of our companions is going through a hard time however, we know that the power of the Atonement is real and that it will only strengthen him. I will keep you updated, this area is going to explode with having people to teach within just a couple weeks! I love it here in El Paso, and I would not change it for any place else. I pondered a lot about what I could share with my companions, and I thought a lot about what Bishop Eldredge related to me when I was in Priest Quorum. He talked about ENTHUSIASM and I express my gratitude for his testimony, and his love. He has in-stilled something incredible in my heart. This is a Gospel of peace, comfort, happiness, and joy. Why not smile, even in the toughest situations? I trained my companions on an acronym, which is chosen. C-Character H-Hierarchy O-Outlook S-Soundness E-Enthusiasm N-Nimbleness or Never Give Up. I defined each one and had them guess, what each letter meant. It was a very spiritual experience, and they have taught me so much. I would tell Bishop Eldredge myself, but his address has escaped me....However, if you could pass the message along of my gratitude for his training on enthusiasm and exemplifying that quality that would be awesome!
 
I cannot believe Olivia sang with the Laurels! Way to go Liv! Tell me how it is this next week! Sounds like the Progressive was a hit once more. I will definitely look forward to that tradition in 2015!! I cannot wait to see pictures of holiday moments, etc. As I was scrambling to find something in my suit-case this morning, I found my polos, which I have both outgrown and I am wanting to send them home. I will await your letter, and the Christmas packages! I will see what I can do....It got really cold here on Saturday and frosty. About 32 degrees all throughout the morning into the late-afternoon. I look forward to singing with the ward choir here, because they selected me once they knew I could sing bass. I am one of the strongest basses, along with Bishop Carsoli. We will be singing "Carol of the Bells" in two weeks, which is awesome. It is in Spanish. Random word in Spanish: Carolers is Villanzicos, and going caroling is hacer villanzicos.
 
I hope that you have a great week! Tell the fam, and the ward I say hello. Treats during this time of year in packages are always welcome too! ;) Mint brownies or something else would suffice, haha. Anyway, today is going to be crazy so I better get going here, but I love you Mom and I hope that your knee gets feeling better. 
 
Love,
Elder Sterling Grant Richards 
 
 
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December 3rd and another transfer:)

Mom,
Sounds like the storm is upon Draper!! I am e-mailing from the Pebble Hills library in the heart of El Paso Texas right now. I am spending Christmas and New Years in El Paso. Where to start....I drove over the mountains to the Redd chapel waited around for several hours and then finally the rest of the bunch showed up so that we could start transfer meeting. I was sitting on the bench when I saw Elder Mamales walk in and walk towards the stand, and then he saw me and came and gave me a hug and a letter from Elder Dallas! Elder Mamales was called as one of our zone leaders. Two of my previous companions are the El Paso Zone Leaders: Elder Keddington my trainer, and Elder Mamales my third companion. The zone leaders are in a trio and Elder Hunter is the third zone leader who is going home in three weeks. The missionaries erupted with excitement when Elder Keddington announced:"In Las Tierras Elder Richards will be serving with Elder Berrett and....Elder Anderson!" I was deeply shocked, however it has been challenging and fun all at the same time being with these two Elders.
 
Speaking of trios: I am the senior companion in a trio-companionship serving in Montana Vista: Las Tierras with Elder Anderson and Elder Berrett. Elder Matthew Berrett is from West Jordan, UT, and Elder Erik Anderson is from Sacramento, CA. Elder Berrett is 6'3'' and 18 years old. He has been out for 4 months. Elder Anderson is about six feet, and almost 21 years old. He finishes his mission in February. It is tender mercy to have two of my previous companions as my zone leaders. Elders Keddington and Mamales are still doing awesome!!
 
So from the Redd Chapel we drove over the Trans-mountains and hopped on the freeway going towards Juarez, Mexico, but we turned right before the bridge of entry and ended up on George Dieter and then finally after some shopping, etc; we ended up at our apartment off of Edgemere. We drive a 2011 Chevy Colorado the same color as the truck in Cruces, and I am getting used to driving a truck again! There are three companionships serving in our ward: Vista Del Sol: Elders Hernandez and Crocker, Pebble Hills( Del Norte): Hermanas Callaway and Hendricks, and us Las Tierras. I saw the most in attendance in a sacrament meeting on Sunday I had ever seen on my mission. Apparently on a good week there are 300 or so members in attendance, which is insane to me! The congregation was so filled we had to sit in the back on chairs.
 
This past week was marvelous in the fact that it was my first Thanksgiving on the mission, and what an interesting day that was....We ended up having two dinners the entire day, as well as visiting some active members, and less-active. It was a grand soiree at the first dinner at the Cruz home! Their entire extended family on both sides showed up, and many of them in the ward are related to each other. We did some visits, drove on some dirt roads to get to places faster, and ended off the night with some delicious Turdunkin' at the Madrid' residence! I was so excited when they sliced it and put in on my plate. Duck Dynasty seems to be following me around my mission lately....It was delicious! :) They let me take some home, and when I got home I dropped the keys and my plate went flying in the entry-way. I wish I would have taken a picture of it. I think we may have some left-overs in the fridge however....
 
Well, we live upstairs in a pretty nice apartment, and we all relate with one another pretty well. It is going to be a tough transfer, however all I want to do is work hard, and teach these Elders the best way to be a missionary, which is by seeking diligently to be pro-active at all times and in all places. My Spanish this transfer has risen to a new level, because it had to! I cannot believe I have been out for over seven months now! Time flies when you are working hard!!
 
I want to share a couple experiences from this past week, which demonstrated persistence, and charity. The first of these experiences occurred on Wednesday when we had the privilege to help a Cuban man who is wheel-chair bound move. He had a lot of work out equipment and a few odds and ends here and there, but really he demonstrated to me that he was going to be his best, despite his circumstances. This man Wilson Bidot was placed in our path for a reason, and I know that he is seeking the Gospel in his life. We have not seen him since, but he really admired the fact that we dedicate two years of our lives to serve.
 
 The second was a miracle, which took place last night. We had gotten out of lesson with Hermana Sweeney and we got in our truck. We had exhausted our plans that we had set already and it wasn't even time to be in for the night. We felt prompted to say a pray and to pray specifically for direction. We finished the prayer when I looked at the GPS on the dashboard and put my finger on one of the symbols: the red box in this case. We were led to a less-active member's home, and we got to the door and it looked dark, however we stayed there a little longer and knocked one more time; when a younger woman opened the door and we said we felt like we needed to come here, and she said I am glad you came come in. Then she hesitated a moment and stated: Don't you have a rule that you cannot enter into a home of a single woman? We chuckled a bit, and said "somos tres ahorita, entonces podemos pasar si quiere!"
 
We went inside and we talked for a little while. She brought up families and asked us what type of traditions we do around Christmas time back home. I was the first to answer and brought up the progressive dinner, and how we come together as family, have fun, and eat many times! She thought that was very interesting then she mentioned how she and her family get together at her Mom's house to make lots and lots of tamales then eat them. We talked and then Elder Anderson shared a scripture about prayer. We had a prayer and we still had abundant time before we had to be in for the night.
 
We were about to leave when we asked do you need anything? or "Hay algo podemos hacer para ayudarle antes que nos vayamos? and that is when she asked what do I need to do to get a blessing. We told her that all she needed to do was have faith that the blessing was directly from her Father in Heaven. She told us that she wanted to come back to church and that she was separated from her husband, and she was going through some very difficult times. I gave her the blessing and I had tears of joy fill my eyes as I was finishing the blessing. I was touched by her faith and her sudden change. The priesthood is real and it does bless others!
 
I love this area and the people here! I hope that you have a great week, and that you trust in the Lord to change your circumstances when the dark "storms settle in", especially during this time of the season. I know that obedience brings a more meaningful, and a greater connection to revelation from on high. I have felt that this week, and I sincerely pray that we can remember what this season is really about! The birth of our Savior and what He has given us.
 
Have a great week, can't wait to talk to you on Christmas.
 
Love,
Elder Sterling Grant Richards
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November 25th Letter...Almost Thanksgiving

Hola Madre,
 
Esta semana fue superior! The title of this letter is an attempt at "fat guy in a little coat" if you didn't catch that. Well, as you can see a six-week bullet out of Trans-Mtn North is what is happening right now! My companion is training a brand new missionary and I am getting launched off somewhere else. I do not know where or what my next assignment is going to be until tomorrow. I was standing in Walmart and a man started singing "It's Beginning to Look a lot like Christmas in El Paso...." It is more than true. It has been frigid and quite brisk here in the mountains this past week and to be honest we have been richly blessed by members giving us rides. We only had to bike twice!! I will send some pictures of Elder Richards "the Eskimo" as my companion called me, as well as the snow, and mis despedidas con las personas de este barrio! y some photos of my fascination with the Duck Dynasty merchandise in Walmart. Haha, I have made certain situations fun while biking!
 
Anyway, sorry for the tangent. I will update you with my address as soon as I know. Today our P-Day was suddenly changed back to Monday just for this week, due to scheduling conflicts; I guess it was. The reason our Mission President changed our preparation day was to compensate for the time lost, because certain libraries, and government buildings are not open in our mission on Mondays, because of national labs etc, enhoused here. Also, our weekly planning day was changed to Monday, which makes a lot more sense! Today, I am e-mailing, and packing. I cannot shop until I get into my next area.  It was fun to hear from Will, Granny and Grandpa, and Liv.  I cannot believe that Kennedy and Will are growing up and playing on their own teams! I have only played Settlers a few times. Way to go Mom! :) How was Michael Buble? I might have heard some of his CD while out working! Send some pictures of Thanksgiving and the Holidays, I would love that more than anything! I will keep you posted on everything. If I don't get a chance tomorrow, definitely the next week. I had the opportunity of getting stretched out, and my back popped, etc with an LDS chiropractor, and I feel a lot better now! :D
 
This week was incredible! We really got the members more involved and a lot of wonderful things happened! We have six investigators with baptismal dates now, and the Lopez family came to church for the first time in 20 years! It was a miracle! They are working on preparing for the temple and getting sealed as a family! What an incredible plan our Father in Heaven has for us!!!! My companion and I were involved in several meetings this past week, and there was a lot of house-keeping to do as I am leaving, and he is taking over the area. As I mentioned, El Paso got down to the 30's this week, and you can tell by the pictures just how freezing it was!! I enjoy working hard, because it brings great joy knowing that I am doing everything that I can to give my all, and to never give up, and that I am literally saving souls by dedicating and consecrating these two years of my life to serve the Lord with all of my heart, might, mind, and strength. I have been touched by the Spirit immensely this week, and look forward to this next capacity, which the Lord is entrusting to me.
 
I am growing rapidly, and have been experiencing growing pains off the charts. My spiritual perspective of life, and of service is beginning to open my heart and mind. I want to bear my testimony to all that I know that people can change, and that they will. You must first do something yourself before you can tell someone else to do so. I am here to invite, to preach, and to teach my spiritual brothers and sisters. I know that our Heavenly Father's plan is so vast and expansive that we will never come to a perfect knowledge of it, at least in this life! I know that we are here to grow and progress, and to do our part in order to receive the blessings from on high! I know that our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ lives, that Father in Heaven lives, and they both love us more than we can comprehend. The blessing and gift of an eternal family is something that we should cherish! There is no greater power than that of God's love for His own family, His children, His servants, and all those who will take their faith in His Son Jesus Christ and act! For we know, "Faith without works is dead being alone." May we ponder it in our hearts and our minds, and may we "lengthen our stride, and quicken our pace of action according to faith." This is my humble prayer for all this week, in the sacred name of Jesus Christ the Lord, Amen.
 
There is not much more to say this week other than to express my gratitude as Thanksgiving is coming up. In Spanish: Dia de Accion de Gracias! Anyway, I want to finish off with a list of what I am indeed grateful for. I am grateful for our loving, powerful Father in Heaven, for our Savior and Redeemer, His perfect example and His everlasting and infinite Atonement, for the Gospel of Jesus Christ, my incredible family, being raised in a Gospel-Centered Home, My siblings and their incredible examples, all of the role-models, heros, and heroines in my life who have helped me become the hard-worker, determined disciple, the oldest brother of three wonderful sisters, grandson who has been impacted immensely by his wonderful grandparents, male-cousin who looks up to his younger cousins as well as to his older cousins(The Bells :) ), and the uncle who loves his niece dearly. I am grateful for this opportunity of growth and the ability to develop on this earth, the Restoration of the only True Church on this Earth today, for the Prophet Joseph Smith and his exceedingly great faith, and perserverence to do what is right always, for the Book of Mormon, and the wonderful gift which it is! I would like to stretch forth my arms of appreciation to all of the leaders in my life, and to all of my friends, and loved ones.  I am grateful for many things, and I wish to extend a challenge this week, especially on Thanksgiving, that of which is to pray more sincerely, express more gratitude than is necessary, and pray and truly turn to Heavenly Father for that spiritual guidance we all need. I am grateful for all of the talents, characteristics, and individual attributes, which make Elder Sterling Grant Richards the person and son of God he is today! I cannot express enough gratitude for your example to me Mom (pushing me to be successful, work hard, and to get my Eagle scout as well as the importance of laying aside procrastination) "Mom you earned your Eagle", and for the wonderful, firm, and steadfast heroes, and worthy bearers of the Holy Priesthood above all things: Grandpa Grant, Jeff, Jason, Jordan, and Austin! I sincerely express my thanks and love to all of you this week, and I hope that you all have a wonderful Thanksgiving!
 
With Great Love and Infinite Gratitude,
-Elder Sterling Grant Richards

November 18th Letter

Hey Mom,
I have had a wonderful week! I will keep my eyes peeled for the bag that you sent, I highly appreciate everything you've done for me, and are currently doing for me! You are a wonderful Mom, and I know that you will be blessed for your efforts, and your great works! I am sure that you are being blessed daily. I know that I am.  I have come to treasure photos as valuable memories on my mission.
 
This week was fantastic in so many ways. I truly learned how much an attitude does make an impact on how everything that follows in the day, week, etc....any other extended period of time. As I was pondering about what I could do to be able to attain the attribute, well, strengthen my attribute of humility....I have come across several solutions, and answers to my prayers. I would like to share those. I know that you have to be doing your part, to encourage someone else. Often times when things don't fall into place you have to assess what can I do differently or how can I help make this situation or circumstance better. I realized that many of the Christ-like attributes mesh together when compared to the grander perspective of Eternity! You only have influence or control over certain things, other factors come in to play because of one's agency, will, desire, or strife in doing something.
 
This week we were discouraged to see that Sister Lopez is not going to make her baptismal date for the 30th, however, she is starting to really have an intrigue for learning, and for us to help her understand what she is studying. Ruth is incredible, and we are hoping that she will be baptized in December. I would like to share a quick miracle story that happened this past week on Thursday evening at about 8:15 p.m. or so. We drove to an appointment that we had set about a week in advance. Unfortunately, when we got there we were sad to hear that the husband was in Albuquerque for his job, and he did not bring it to our awareness. However, we got to see how the wife and the son were doing, and it was a sweet tender mercy. The miracle comes into play as we left: We felt prompted to go visit our investigator Oswaldo Aguirre, and my GPS started re-calculating the route to one that we had not taken before.... One that was uncommon, however, it was the right one. When my GPS changed the route it was divine guidance, because sure enough there was a man who hadn't been at his home before out on his porch, and the most miraculous observation I had from the get-go was that his gate was wide-open, and so was his heart and mind. He was truly willing to listen, and the Lord had put him in our path.
 
This man Lidio Camacho is now our investigator with a baptismal date for December 7th. He had been to church before with his daughter, and when we taught a little bit about the Plan of Salvation there were tears streaming down his face, that he would have the opportunity to see his wife, and lost loved ones again. En Espanol es aquellos quien han fallecido. This incredible brother is in his late 70's and he has been prepared his entire life to receive the Restored Gospel! Although, we had the car this last week.... It will be good to be on bikes again and to be able to have those tender mercies of biking in the open of El Paso! In other news: Transfers are next week! I will keep you updated about that for sure.
 
 I know that you are busy in your own personal ministry, and that those people that you talk to see your incredible example and the light from your talents. You, I, and Grandpa Grant all know that we run into people everyday for a reason, and we can relate to them well. Call me little Grant, because last night Javier Lopez (Ruth's boyfriend) and I were talking about music, and he told me he was a composer, and a classical guitarist, pianist, drummer, plays the ukele, and then I wanted to hear his talent. He has perfect pitch, and he pulled out the Spanish guitara and played some romanca for us! It reminded me of Grandpa when he sang "Fox went out on a chilly night."  I told him that I loved to sing, and that I was an instrumentalist before my mission. We really connected, and I can now have vocabulary in Spanish to use regarding one of my passions, which is music! I am learning so much, and my Spanish is improving ten-fold each and every day!!
 
As far as Christmas music is concerned....I honestly have no idea what the rules will be regarding Christmas music. Members have Christmas music on in their homes, and I am around it a lot. I enjoy it, and it drives me to help others feel joy, because they can have Salvation in the Kingdom. I am excited to see what I can do as a missionary on Christmas to bless the lives of others. I also look forward anxiously to when we get to talk on Christmas!!!! 
 
 I think my Nike's might have been terminated when I stepped in dog poop during service....however, they are still in-tact, just stinky.  Elders Craner' birthday is next week on the 25th: The adopted boys of the fam are turning 21!! I still keep in touch with them. They would love to hear from Liv, and Mad, and you, and Hayley I am sure. I know Hannah writes me in Spanish to practice her Spanish! I cannot believe that Trent, Tate, and the Cranes have almost completed their missions....It flies by, but at the same time goes by day by day, which is the right pace! I will pray that your knee gets better. Tell Liv that if I was there right now I would do the same and for her to enjoy it while she can. I am envious that you are going to Michael Buble, how cool! However, enjoy it, and be safe!! I still hear jazzy Buble on my mission every now and then!
 
I am happy to hear that things at home are going well, and that Livi is keeping up her grades, and Hayley is little Sterling Grant....haha! Anyway, I cannot believe Thanksgiving is this next week. I have lost a lot of weight. I now am almost 6'2'' and about 194 pounds. I am sure when winter and the holidays my weight will take its toll, but that is what I get for being a Spanish missionary. I second Hayley's testimony about tithing, it is incredible to see the fruits of paying your tithing! I would love some "Madelynne Frances Fratto Snicker Doodle Dessert Bars"! Yum!!!! I forgot to tell you; kinda late now, but your treats from Halloween were delicious! Thanks for the updates on the ward. I am happy to see missionary work, being lit up so much in our ward. Almost 10 missionaries now serving right? I hope Olivia serves....up to her though. I am glad to hear that you have had so many opportunities on a regular basis to share the Gospel como decimos en Espanol: a los demas!
 
I love you all, and I hope that you have a great week! Will has been awesome to talk to pretty much every week. Even his little funny e-mails of two or five words, they're golden!
-Elder Sterling Grant Richards
 
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November 11th Letter...Back to Biking Basics!

Dear Mom,
This week was very taxing and one of the most incredible weeks at the same time. My companion & I have put on two Family Home Evenings in the past week & the kids absolutely love our activities! Last night, we came up with a Gospel version of "Chutes & Ladders"; called "Afflictions & Blessings"; we thought we were pretty creative and that we might have a future for producing missionary games for Deseret Book or something, kidding....That aside, we biked tirelessly this week, which was a miracle in itself! I have gotten back into the hang of biking on a 7 speed & absolutely love it! This week we have the silver Corolla, because our area is a car-share area now, not just a biking area. We switch off bikes & the car weekly.
     
There is so much to talk about! Where to start: The greatest thing about being on bikes is being able to talk to people right on the street while out proselyting. In fact, on Wednesday right as we set off out the door we biked down the hill, when a younger man signaled for us to come across the street to a purified water station. We rode across & talked to the man. He told us that he wanted to come back to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, but he wasn't sure how to start. We told him that we would drop by & share a few things with him as well as show him where the church was. 
We also had some other experiences that the people were not so nice. As I was biking on Thursday in the afternoon on exchanges with the district leader, I was almost attacked by a big white dog and had quite the scare! However, there are people who watch out for the missionaries. A big black man came out of nowhere in his military uniform & distracted the dog long enough for me to get out the gate of our apartment complex. We were biking to get  to Wal-Mart to pick up some supplies for the F.H.E. when a sports car sped past & stopped and we got cussed out like you wouldn't believe, but I just smiled & waved. These experiences taught me to open my mouth & to truly explain who I was & why I am here in El Paso Texas right now!
Later on the night of exchanges..... we had biked a long distance to almost the corner of our area & then had to bike to a Missionary Council meeting at the Arias' home after giving a blessing to a woman. We biked with haste, and the Elder in front of me kept on going & never stopped. I received an impression in my mind to keep peddling no matter how tired or exhausted I was! My heart was comforted to know that the Lord had given me strength to bike after 5 years of not touching a bike. The last stretch & the final climb were the most horrendous slopes of this ride, because it was all up-hill on a pretty steep-grade road. I was on the lowest gear & still was sore & all of the blood had rushed to my legs, I was panting, but this Elder in front of me was peddling rapidly up this hill. I gave it a chance, and followed the prompting of the Holy Ghost that I had received. I peddled & peddled& peddled& peddled up this hill & eventually we got to a light where I could rest & finish off my water bottle. We then had to bike down a straight path, and up an even steeper hill to get to our destination! I was sweating waterfalls, and pushing with all of my might & I made it, but I had to fight to get up this hill and not fall.
I take away a great analogy from my experience. No matter, how hard we attempt to do something, we cannot rely on our own strength we have to trust that our Heavenly Father will lift us in our challenges, and that the Savior's Atonement will make-up if we do our part, all of our slip-ups! As I got into the house for the meeting it was about to come to a close. As I looked around, everyone was asking : "Elder Richards todo esta bien? "Les Contesto, yo, si porque yo tengo la fuerza del Senor para llevarme en mis difficultales y desafios." Had I stopped biking, I would not have been able to stay within sight and sound of my district leader. Often times, the leaders of the church challenge us to do things, which we may not want to do at first. The point being, we need to persevere & push with all of our might to reach the finish line, which is eternity. We will have trials, and traps, and temptations thrown in our way, but we can cry unto the Lord & find rest & peace. I love the scripture in Alma 34:41: I too know that with patience & humility in our hearts & with a willingness to do our part we will be blessed more abundantly than if we rely on our strength alone!!
I also learned this week that love is more important than anything else. If we love, we will be able to serve & receive the fruits of the Gospel & the Spirit in their plenitude. Joy, Meekness, Temperance, Patience, Humility, Charity, Love, Strength, Endurance, Power to bless the lives of others, Abilities to build up the Kingdom at a rapid rate, and many more. It isn't enough just to demonstrate an attribute without asking our Father in Heaven Himself for the strength to improve & to rise up to our potential in everything that we do. I challenge all to pray for love & charity to swell up in their hearts on a daily basis, and by so doing, I promise you that you will be happier & find success more abundantly in your lives. This is my humble prayer for all, and I say it in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, Amen.

I hope that you all have a great week! I love you Mom, and was touched by your sweet words on Sunday at the fireside. Thank you for your example & for being a "trooper" there are many who look up to your example! I hope that you feel the love of our Father in Heaven each and everyday as President Holmes promised! I still would like to hear your thoughts, and impressions on my setting-apart, especially Grandpa Grant's blessing. I remember Reggie Walbeck well, I did not know that he was serving in Roswell that is so cool! Tell his mom that I say hello to him. I am loving it here in El Paso. Especially, the other day as I was standing in Circle K getting a Coke I heard "Silver Bells", & then the song changed & I thought that it was a bit strange to be hearing "Winter Wonderland" in 75 degree, sunny weather, but I am wearing a sweater. I guess that is kind of Christmassy right? Haha, I will keep you updated about the weather & the adventures. I saw some Duck Dynasty toys in Walmart & laughed so hard. I will take some pictures. Thank you for the cute pictures of Ellie! Hayley has gotten big! Liv just chickened out like I did, when I decided to put Call of Duty before the Lord that one New Years....At least she was prepared. I am going to make her a promise: If she prays to have the ability to leave her comfort zone & reach out to someone or make a new friend each week she will be able to open up so much more. Just by talking to people as a missionary I have been able to improve my Spanish immensely, maybe I will speak some on Christmas to you who knows ;); by listening to these people & by watching their it may sound weird....lips. I can almost roll my rrs! Finally! I hope that all is well & that you continue to share the Gospel with those around you just by bearing your testimony & in the spirit of this season, serving just as Christ would! :) I will think of something that you can possibly help with. Have a great day & know that you are all in my prayers daily!

Much Love,
-Elder Sterling G. Richards

Six Months Out! November 4th Letter

Hello Mom and loved ones,
I appreciate being able to read your e-mails and although for a while sporadic; I am happy to hear that all is going well! Wow, it truly sounds like Utah is the same old Utah. It rained here last night, and then the brisk wind swept through El Paso for a couple hours....that was about it. A We got a call at about 7:30 this morning and the zone leaders told us that our area was being converted from the Jeep Compass to bikes! This will be a very new experience for me, because as we all know....the last time I was on a bike I was plummeting to the edge of a cliff on a camp out with Mike Norton almost 5 or 6 years ago down on the Slickrock trail in the red rocks of Moab!
I look forward to having this new experience. I always wondered what it would be like being a biking missionary like in the "Best Two Years." Perhaps something will happen as a result of being on a bike, definitely more interesting experiences I am sure. My companion and I talked to over 60 people this week, which was pretty entertaining and disheartening at the same time. We decided to do some tracting you know the good old knocking doors, getting them slammed in your face and then seeing someone on the street who needs help. I talked to a Russian woman and she was difficult to understand, but it might be a good service opportunity in the future.
I am happy to hear that Livi and Hayley are doing awesome, not just well it sounds like! You have to forgive me this letter might be a bit scattered....
Way to go Livi 4.0 and talking to more people. Looks like she is just being prepared to open her mouth and share the Gospel (I am hinting at something)....;) I could probably still translate a first graders work in French, beyond that I don't know because my Spanish has truly taken over!! I am happy to hear that Olivia is going to YW activities it will bless her in the future! I want to hear about how the talk goes I am sure she will be a stellar speaker, it runs in the family you know....I miss the dogs and everytime I see a Chihuahua it tries to attack me, so I miss calm dogs, although, they bark at home. I have just gotten out of the car to go to an appointment and teach and the dogs bark very obnoxiously and consistently and something always happens there, especially while relating the First Vision.
As far as what you are curious about: My ward is full of all different kinds of Spanish people, Americans who married into Latino families, and a bunch of bilinguals. Most of them speak English, however, we mostly communicate in Spanglish. There is Bishop Myers, Brother Cigarroa, and Brother Sandoval in the Bishopric. The Elders Quorum President served a Spanish speaking mission and married a Latina. The Relief Society President Hermana Maese is just awesome! In fact two weeks ago we were judges for the ward activity for the trunk or treat costume contest. Halloween was very interesting this year, because it was Thursday or weekly planning day, and although it was Halloween we still worked and had a lot of success through that. My sixth month mark or Friday was incredible because we had the opportunity to meet with Ruth who I have mentioned before. She accepted to be baptized on the 30th of November this month!! Our ward isn't all the way on board when it comes to missionary work, however, lots of the members feed us almost every night. In Las Cruces it was seldom to eat so consistently each week or month at a member's home.
We were sitting in Sacrament meeting yesterday and we heard something outside, which sounded like a hammer. We went outside during the sacrament to see what it was and sure enough it was a blue and silver woodpecker right by the window(side door) of the chapel. We stomped and it flew away. It was such a strange experience. Like I mentioned further up in this letter the area is becoming a bike area and it will be a new and interesting experience. I will miss the Jeep, however, we are going to enjoy the Jeep until Friday. Don't worry I have a bike that is in storage and I am excited for this. I think I may have to purchase a helmet, maybe. My companion is very driven and I hope that we stay together for more than a transfer! He is helping me speak Spanish a lot better, because we do our best to frequently speak it about 75 % of the time in our apartment. My companion and I we believe go home on the same day, which is crazy!  Just being with him I am getting a very mixed accent when I speak Spanish: something like a combination of Darth Vader, Russian, Peruvian, Argentinian, Mexican, Spain like, and German/ French some say.
I am happy to hear that the family is getting involved in Family History! My ward mission leader and his wife are really fascinated by my name. People struggle to pronounce. I might get a name tag that says Elder Ricardos, because it means the same thing, however, its a lot easier to pronounce. We were in the Family History Center preparing for a Family Home Evening that we kind of procrastinated preparing for until an hour beforehand....It went well! I will keep Gaye, and Kim in my prayers especially. That sounds yucky, and I hope Sherry is doing all right. Jeff teaching teenagers in Sunday school nice!! You will get a calling eventually.
I sure got the package and laughed at the "not foil dinners :)"; Thank you so much for everything I really do appreciate it. I am doing my best to budget and keep track. I am glad to hear that you got that extra job!  I hope that Jeff gets to be there on Christmas. I might get to Skype and I will look forward to that! I am so excited to see my niece! Prints would be nice!!!!
I am excited to work even harder this next week! We still live in our apartment as far as I know. I will let you know of any more changes, etc. I have felt the fruits of the Spirit abundantly this last week! I am happy to hear that you are being richly blessed, I would not rather be doing anything else or anywhere else than in this wonderful region for Kingdom builders! Obedience is first, I will continue to follow the rules and to consecrate my service and be even more dedicated! I love these people here and I love you all! I hope that you all have a great week and I will definitely report on how my first week on a bike goes here in the mission-field! Send hugs to the fam for me!
Mucho Amor!
-Elder Sterling G. Richards

October 28th Letter..Rough Week!

Dear Mom and all loved ones, 
I don't know where to start with this week, because it was very difficult and miraculous at the same time! The week started off just fine last Monday and about 3 am Tuesday I encountered a nasty case of food poisoning because I did not heed to the promptings of the Holy Ghost with enough care! I drank some water the night before....who knew how long it had been sitting out and I wanted something to drink and grabbed the first thing in my path... water! I felt a prompting to stop drinking the water and I wish I would've! Anyway, my stomach did not like that water very much and I fell very ill. I had never experienced an illness anything like this before, however I knew that Heavenly Father would help me through this but small moment and he did! Through much prayer and puking I got over it. This week was one of the best, because I truly learned the divine power of the Atonement and everything fell into place the way the Lord wanted it. This small lack to recognize the voice of warning from the Holy Ghost caused much pain and misery. 
I recovered after three days and then my companion fell ill so you could say that our companionship was sick the entire week. As I told my Mission President this week: The work still goes on even when we are in a state where what we feel like is the absolute bottom! I have come out of this illness stronger than ever. As I was attempting to recover from this trial I prayed for guidance to know what to do, because even though I couldn't go out and teach I could prepare myself to do so when I got better. I thought of what it truly means to be a builder of the Kingdom of God and I went to the index to see if I could find any scriptures to make sense of a definition. I came to the scripture in Doctrine and Covenants  64:33: "Wherefore, be not weary in well-doing, for ye are laying the foundation of a great work. And out of small things proceedeth that which is great." I felt nothing but the Savior's love and the same our Heavenly Father's grand love for all of us His children. He takes the weak and makes them strong builders; for Jesus the Christ is the Master Builder of all. I really love President Monson's address- "The Bridge Builder" from the October 2003 conference and I would encourage you to read it and liken it unto your own lives this week! It is powerful, especially where he relates obedience to a foundation. The work goes on and continues to hasten, because there are many souls who need to be brought unto this Gospel of happiness and joy and love! I am so happy that I have been blessed with this capacity to serve in this tremendous area at this time and I know that it is by divine revelation that I was sent here! The people here are incredible: In fact Mom....Yesterday at dinner with the Arias Family we got talking about our genealogy and it somehow came up and I was wondering if we are related to Constantine through your side of the family or are part- Turkish, because Constantinople originates from Constantine. Also, do you know if we are actually Native Americans, because that would be cool as well to know. 
When my companion and I were both feeling better we went out and worked and it was the greatest feeling! I followed the promptings to go visit a less-active family and sure enough they were there and it was truly incredible to understand the importance of obedience and that we are all instruments in some shape or form in the Lord's work as members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. I am excited to work even harder this week and to see what will happen!! I would like to end with my testimony that if we are dedicated and consistently building more and more on the "rock of our Redeemer", we cannot be consumed by adversity or the tempter and his snare. Obedience is key; no matter what time of our lives we are in!
 I cannot believe that on Friday I will have been out six months! I am so excited to continue to serve and I want to hear an update! I pray for all of the family each and every day and I pray that Liv will prepare to be a missionary, because she would be an incredible one! I love you all and I hope that you have a wonderful week.
Much love,
Elder Sterling Grant Richards

October 21st Letter: A New Area...in Texas:)

Dear Mom,
This week was quite incredible in many different ways. The first of which as I already mentioned is that the work is truly hastening enough to open more areas and split others 2 or sometimes 4 ways if the work is progressing enough. My companion was re-assigned from the Honduras Tegucigalpa mission and sent here. He is a native and is teaching me a lot about Spanish and I am starting to speak at a machine-gun pace well....I am getting there! My companion reminds me a lot of Kevin Knox from BYU-Idaho, and his family originates from Peru and Spain; Lima and Barcelona. 
I am loving this area so far because there are so many wonderful people here and I have heard some interesting stories. One of these stories is about Hermano Felix Valenzuela Ochoa who built the first Taco Bell in El Paso and is known as "Mr. V." He served in Peru on his mission and he also served in Vietnam I think around the same time as Mark, I am not positive though. He reminds me of Grandpa Grant a little bit and enjoys doing magic tricks for people. My area is over the mountains and is a very scenic place to be. To get to our area we had to drive from the Redd Stake Center over the top of the mountain and then back down again by Hondo Pass. Since you like to hear how I arrived here: I rode in the Jeep Compass from the Venus Chapel to the Redd Chapel and then drove the Jeep Compass with Elder Hidalgo to the Trans-Mountains above and beyond the city.
Over the other side of the mountains is red rock much like St. George. This area is beautiful and we are hopefully going to get some pictures on the ridge where you are able to see the entire valley; I'll send those soon. I will also send you a picture of my companion. The houses here are mostly large, almost mansion like ones. In my area this week we found a new investigator named Ruth. It was a de-ja vu experience for me, because the house was so familiar and the scene was as well. I know that she has been prepared. We are also working with the Si Fuentes family, especially Ricardo the son, and the Dominguez-Soto family. I know they can all change! There is a lot of part-member work in this area and we are seeing miracles just by going out and working with the members. We have so many amazing families who have just been called as ward-missionaries and I know that we are going to have a lot of success this week. Things will only get better here in Trans-Mountain North!
Yesterday my companion and I taught a 5 minute segment of Primary on how to share the Gospel with your friends in an easy manner. I took away several things from this experience. Think of M&M's or Members combining with Missionaries to help others enjoy the "sweetness" which the Gospel message brings. Not everyone likes chocolate until they taste a specific kind of candy (like M&M's). This is much like member-missionary work in this manner. We as missionaries need the members to talk to their friends or their relatives to bring them into the Gospel. I don't know if you know this, but Hannah sees missionaries all over the place and she has been attending mutual. Our family can be member missionaries even if you don't wear the badge; take Elder Ballard's challenge to heart and invite someone; just one before Christmas to an activity or share your testimony, sing a song with them, have a prayer with them. It is just as easy as little kids before they play together having a quick prayer before and maybe singing a hymn. You can relate the Gospel to anything, and I promise that if you exercise your faith and work to build up the Kingdom of Father in Heaven you will be richly blessed and He will guide you by the Spirit. That is how I have been learning Spanish by the promptings of the Holy Spirit and diligent study. 
Lastly, Elder Smaellie is an awesome missionary to be around and he has really good Spanish for how long he has been out. It is heart warming to have a missionary from the Union 4th ward so close! I hope that you all have a great week and continue to pray fervently and read the scriptures with a question in mind! I know that these are the Latter-Days and we cannot procrastinate sharing the Gospel!! The Lord will bless us if we serve others in faith and righteousness. Apply the Gospel to your daily lives, this is but an invitation to you.... 
Again, I hope that you have a wonderful week.

-Love,
Elder Sterling G. Richards
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Transfer Update, October 16th

Real quick,
I understand completely what being in-charge is like. I just opened a brand new area in El Paso in the Franklin Mtns. called Trans-Mountain North! Sorry I have not had the time to let you know where I was sent.... but a little bit about whats going on. My companion is a native from Palm Beach, Florida and he was serving in Honduras Tegucigalpa before getting re-assigned here. We drive a brand new 2014 Jeep Compass and everything is amazing. We have been abundantly blessed, and live in a senior couples apartment with tons of space, which missionaries definitely need! I will get you my exact address by Monday. Things have been crazy here! Elder Smaillee serves in the southern part of the ward, what a tender mercy that has been to serve alongside him the past couple of days. I am learning a lot, until Monday, have a great rest of the week/ weekend! 
Love always,
Your son 
Elder Sterling Richards
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Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Goodbye Miranda North, Oct 15th Letter

Dear Mom and loved ones,

This weekend I received my transfer call and won't know where I am going until tomorrow. If I get the chance tomorrow I will let you know from my new area! I could go up north or further south to Texas; either would be cool! My companion is staying here in Miranda North and training a new missionary. Who knows maybe he will get Elder Smailee as his companion.... It is suit season so we have been wearing our sweaters with the new dress and grooming modifications. It is still hotter than the blazes here!
Not much to report from this week other than the fact that we no longer with the zone leaders and more sisters are coming into Las Cruces. Our district is pretty much relief society already haha! Anyway, everyone living with the zone leaders got sick except for me. I will send some pictures, and yesterday I got called on in sacrament meeting to say the closing prayer as well as give my testimony. My Spanish is improving immensely- I never would have thought I could hold a conversation as well as talk in two languages at once. I cannot translate very well right now, but I am getting there. The Lord has blessed me so much so that I can share the Gospel with this beautiful culture!
Remember the scripture in Philippians 2:17 and rejoice in gladness often!
-Love Elder Sterling G. Richards

October is Here! Oct 8th Letter

Mom and loved ones!

This week was spiritually enriching and very edifying throughout many of my experiences. I also came to truly know that there is power from applying the principles of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. We are going to move in with the zone leaders for the rest of the transfer and a lot of events jumped out of nowhere! The Lord's hand is truly in all things. I know that for certain. As I listened to General Conference as a missionary out in the field of labor, I felt a special spirit that I had never felt before. I was touched in some way personally by each and every talk of the 183rd Semi-Annual General Conference. I particularly liked how over and over again the cleansing power of the Atonement was re-iterated and how the Lord does give us strength always, if we rely on Him. "Being meek and lowly in heart" is very important and demonstrates our Love for the Savior. I really loved how these inspired prophets, seers, and revelators focused on the basics. Missionary work is no different. We teach people to prepare them to make covenants and to become converted unto the Lord Jesus Christ.

It was a bit disheartening to not have been able to attend the Priesthood session of this Conference, because it is more important to seek out souls to bring unto "God's kingdom." I was touched by Elder Christofferson's talk on "womanhood, moral authority, and respect for women." This applies directly to our family, because of Maddie, Olivia, and Hayley. I had the opportunity to give several priesthood blessings to the Sisters in our district as well as my companion. There is incredible power in the Priesthood even the power of Jesus Christ to act in the name of God. I tenderly anticipated and prepared to receive revelation for my conference experience this year and what a blessing it was. I too loved Elder Bednar's talk on tithing, as well as President Uchtdorf's. As missionaries we have the wonderful opportunity to serve others and talk to as many people to bring them unto our Father in
Heaven. With this comes a need for boldness and faith! "Doubting the doubts" is a huge factor in this.

I talked to Olivia a little last week and expressed some thoughts and feelings and I know that she was touched during General Conference. I am happy to hear that she has such great leaders. I cannot thank my leaders enough for helping me to become the man and missionary I am today! Mom, tell all of my leaders this and that I love them! I am grateful to have such wonderful sisters and to you Mom for your wonderful example! I feel that the Lord has known what he wants me to accomplish here in my mission since the beginning and as I apply that which I know and rely on Him in all things I am seeing the miracles, not just the blessings. There are countless blessings here that I have seen. I hope that you all see the power of prayer and the miracle of forgiveness in your lives. As I have come to diligently seek for understanding, ponder, prepare, and help others to my best ability, I have come to know of the Savior's divine strength in my life and our Heavenly Father's divine will in my life.
I had the opportunity to help many people this week through acts of service. Whether it was lifting objects and furniture, or painting walls and struggling to keep rollers in-tact, I know that these simple, sometimes strenuous acts of service are part of "charity never faileth!" If we serve out of love, we will feel the love of the Lord even more immensely in our lives, and know that our Heavenly Father's Plan of Happiness is a blessing and a way of eternal blessings, rewards, and happiness unlike any that we have ever received in our lives! 

As I was serving in the House of the Lord yesterday, I was overwhelmed with joy, emotion, love, and a heart full of humility and devotion. The blessing of the temple and temple ordinances, even saving ordinances, is indescribable for me. I cannot express how much happiness I could feel in the temple and of the power and strength and might of our Father in Heaven. It truly cannot be measured! I could talk about many things, but I think that will do for now. I cannot believe October is here. It flies, and I love every moment of it. It is hard at times and I know that the Lord will not entrust us with anything that we cannot achieve or reach to our capacity or our potential that is God-given. Gifts are God-given and they should be used daily to bless the lives of our Heavenly Father's children, even our spiritual Brothers and Sisters! 

A quick story about acting on impressions of the Holy Ghost immediately: This past week my companion told me you are going to be a leader and a senior companion and a trainer very soon. What are we going to do at 2 in the afternoon tomorrow? I sat there for a minute and he calmly said; ponder and pray that is the only way! I did just that and the next morning I woke up and a thought popped in my head directly from Heaven and we actually found someone else who knew the person I had thought of. Had we not been there, the ladies would have struggled to carry the furniture and bins up huge flights of stairs. They were interested in hearing the message of the Restored Gospel and we set a return appointment with them! Always act on the mysterious thoughts that come suddenly, because they can be of the utmost importance!

I love you all and I hope that you continue to deepen your conversion and enhance your study about and to the Savior and his teachings and our Father in Heaven's eternal plan, which is the same for all of us. "To bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man!" 
I sincerely hope and pray that you all have a tremendous week! There is always hope with faith.

- Love Elder Sterling Grant Richards
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Fall is in the Air!, Sept 30th

Dear Mom and loved ones,

This week was incredible to say the least! We had a tremendous zone-conference on Wednesday in which I sang with our zone as well as got up at the pulpit myself and gave my first Spanish talk to the leaders who were there, including the Stake President who served in this same mission Spanish speaking! Pretty cool! Anyway, yesterday we finally had a the baptism of Tania y Lucy Villezcas and it was a wonderful evening. They got baptized and confirmed on the same day, which as a missionary only happens in rare cases! I performed the baptism of Tania and Elder Mamales performed the baptism of Lucy: I will send some pictures!
At zone-conference we focused on acting out of love, and finding our personal ministry! It was incredible, and very spiritually uplifting. As I was pondering some questions this week that our President gave to us to think about, I really saw the connection between the work of Salvation, and being a member of the church. It is simple, however, it is deep! We have to turn outward and carry our testimonies to the hearts of others so that they can receive the joy and happiness we feel from the Holy Ghost. Share the Gospel! The missionaries are not the only ones who can share the Gospel, we all can! "Every member a missionary!" 
We had a rare opportunity of doing a service project with the Helping Hands organization of the Church! On Saturday we went and helped dig people's homes out, because of the flood which hit the border of Anthony NM, and Texas. It was a very incredible and humbling experience to see the joy and appreciation others have for what they are able to live on. We had many opportunities to do service again this week, which was a miracle in itself!
I never realized how demanding preparing to paint a home was, and then actually painting the home. I was in-charge of rolling the primer or base on, and I learned patience. Many times in our lives it is better to take things "slow and steady." I have been impacted by the smallest things this week and have grown knowing that without the Lord and without our Father in Heaven we are weak. They are the ones who provide us with the strength to accomplish that which needs to be done!
Mom, it sure sounds like everything is picking up in Utah! It's harvest time in many ways right now! I am happy to have received communication with Mad and Liv. I will keep you updated as far as moving goes. This week we have had the contractors on our roof a ton, and they are persistent. I will send some pictures your way, and I love you all, and pray for you daily! Have a wonderful week!
Love, Elder Sterling G. Richards



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September 23rd



Dear Mom and loved ones,
Well I would be lying if I said that this week did not try my testimony and my patience. However, I also learned a lot and came to know Jesus Christ on a different level than I have ever known Him before. There were a lot of struggles that got in the way, but I did not let them prevent me from fulfilling my calling as a representative of Jesus Christ. I truly had to follow the words of the hymn "Press Forward Saints With Steadfast Faith in Christ!" I could not have made it through this strenuous week without the Atonement of my Savior and the enabling power that comes from it.
I had many opportunities to serve this week in countless ways! I recognized and saw the miraculous healing power of the Priesthood in a way that I had never seen it before. All of these children of our Heavenly Father, some at rock-bottom, were struggling to keep going. I prayed and prepared myself so that in the event that I needed to exercise my authority as a Melchizedek Priesthood holder, I would be able to act as an instrument to bless the lives of others. I had the opportunity to give many blessings this week in both Spanish and English. I even in one instance gave a blessing in a chapel in an E.R. facility. Often times we don't realize how many service opportunities exist. Even the simplest acts of kindness can be monumental in a persons' life!!
I have grown so much in this week alone and I know that everything does happen for a reason and that "He will always prepare a way!" We can ask for anything and if we have faith we will receive it. It may not always be in the way we might like or expect, but answers and blessings do flow directly from heaven. I know that families are eternal and that this Church is the only true Church on the earth that contains and exemplifies the fullness of the example of Jesus Christ. We are disciples of Jesus Christ and must act our part in this great work of Salvation!
Yesterday in Sacrament meeting I had a wonderful experience to exercise my high range and belt out "Love is Spoken Here" with a Sister missionary in the ward from Midvale. It was incredible--the Spirit that filled that meeting. I was prepared in the very moment that I needed everything this week, but I had to work for it. We have to act, we cannot sit around waiting for something to happen! I am excited to see what other things will be manifest through works in this area. I love every moment of being here in New Mexico!
We are having two baptisms this Saturday and it is truly miraculous to see someone going through hardships and pains to turn to Heavenly Father for guidance. Lucy and Tania Villescas are incredible and were prepared from the very moment that we met them!!
I am ecstatic to see what other people the Lord has prepared for me to be a beneficial instrument to help them receive the Restored Gospel! I pray that you all might exercise your faith and that you can serve others in need and spit out a simple, but powerful testimony of how you have been blessed in your lives!
Mom: In case you were wondering I got the package! Thank you so much for everything you gave me!! It helped me out to snack on some of my favorite treats when I was being trialed this week. I also cannot believe that the Utes won....oh well there are many more important things to focus on right now. I love you and the family and I hope that you all have a great week!
With much love,
Elder Sterling G. Richards

Monday, September 16, 2013

September 16th...Moving again:)

Dear Mom and loved ones,
Mom thus far I have not received your package. Perhaps it came today while we have not been home. It sounds like things back home are really exciting! I am glad that Hayley is enjoying being a kid while she can!! I am happy to hear of all of the prepared missionaries going out to work from our ward, and the joy that we can all feel in this Everlasting Gospel! A valuable lesson that I have learned this week while being out here as a representative of Jesus Christ is that: " our Heavenly Father and our Savior don't call the qualified, they qualify the called." Specifically with callings in the church we are often placed somewhere outside of our comfort zone to prepare us for even greater things.
I am happy to hear that you have all of these opportunities to work! "The greatest secret to [missionary] work is work! " Throughout this week I have had many unexpected opportunities to help others move, and to use all of my moving skills, which I have learned throughout my entire life for the benefit of others. "When you are in the service of your fellow beings, you are only in the service of your God." [Mosiah 2:17] These opportunities came in other wards.... Who knew that moving all of those people all the way up until I left for my mission would prepare me to move people and objects for members?!? I think the moving experience that most prepared me for this was when I had the blessing of moving Aunt Gaye up to Mountain Home!!
Anyway, this week was fantastic in that I really had to use all of the gifts I have been given to benefit others and apply all that I have learned. On Monday night we went on exchanges with the zone leaders. However, I took the newest zone leader Elder Harris into my area and drove and led all of the lessons and even gave him the chance to have a true Mexican dinner! Many times, we do not know what the way of the Lord that He has prepared for us and we must act before we can see the bigger picture. My faith and my testimony have definitely been strengthened through patience, love, and steadfast prayer this week.
I had a couple really wonderful experiences this week that I would like to share. The first was when I was on exchanges with Elder Harris. We went to visit the Villescas family and in this visit our investigator Lucy broke down in tears, and her daughter Tania testified that she knew that the Gospel is true! The Spirit was so powerful in the room, and this feeling of enormous peace and tranquility through the joy shown in their countenances was incredible! I testified simply and truly felt the Spirit touch their hearts. They accepted the invitation to be baptized on the 28th of this month, and they are on their way to salvation!
The second experience was on Friday night. We took a return missionary with us from the stake, and we went to visit the Segobiano family; who I have been teaching since day one in Las Cruces! Elsa and her husband Obtavio really opened up and expressed that they wanted a pillar to hold up their home and their lives. The three pillars that we used in an analogy were Obedience (reading the Book of Mormon, etc) , Praying with Real Intent, and Attending church to grow closer to the Savior and partake of the sacrament. Although, they did not come to church this week, their righteous desires are growing to a certainty, because they want to be together as a family forever, and serve the Lord with full purpose of heart!
Missionary work is truly incredible, and it is miraculous to see how people really do change through the power of the Atonement! "Nothing is impossible with the help of God." Also this week we were helping our sick and injured district out. This is still missionary work! Often times we ignore the feelings to reach out to someone and we later see them again and decide to aid them. They then see our example and feel of the Savior's love through the charity or the pure love of Christ. TPLOC
I also had a couple funny moments that the fam can relate to! Last night at dinner at the Del Hierros' house. I had a "falling down Fred/ Grandpa Grant moment, and almost lost it laughing so hard, because I almost tanked into the floor as well as broke the chair attempting to sit down at the table. I thought you would enjoy that! I also was singing in the hallway yesterday and Hermana Rivas and I got invited to sing in sacrament meeting next week. We are going to do a duet of Love at Home in Spanish! Also, I am singing at zone conference with our zone though haha. I am very excited for these opportunities, and will update you about them!!
The last thing of the week that I would like to make you aware of is that I am moving again! What is happening is the Miranda South sisters are taking over our apartment now and we are moving into a brand new place. Like I said, a lot of moving opportunities! :) I will let you know as soon as we move what the new address is. Thanks for all of the love and support and the prayers I truly do recognize them and feel of them each and everyday! I will keep my eyes pealed for the package, and will try to keep my Spanish letters to a minimum. The Lord has blessed me in so many marvelous ways! As a note the FaceBook page for our mission is NMAM Lds. Look for it: our assistants and the office missionaries update it often! Elder Morris gave me a GPS he said send me 25 or 30 bucks for it when you get the chance. He just gave me his bike and so much. Have you talked to him?
Tell Livi Skiv to e-mail me or write me; tell her not to be lame and write her brother! I have a lot of insight and advice for her!
I hope that you all have a great week!!
With much love,
Elder Sterling Richards

The Letter Mostly in Spanish/Spanglish, September 9th

Querido Madre y amistades!!
Esta ultima semana fue muy excitado! Yo tenia la oportunidad para bautizar una mujer se llama Dolores Domingez! Fotos a vengan! Mi Espanol ha mejorando mucho cada dia. Y en esto momento yo creo.... estoy hablando muy fluidmente! Mi companero y yo, pues lesextendabamos invitaciones de bautismo y ellos les acceptan un compromiso-liso! Estoy muy animado para ellos y sus deseos a crecen mas cerce de Jesucristo! Tambien, tenemos una familia quien estan listo para preparse mas a recibe el Evangelio Restaurado! Esta familia: Los Gallegos desean la habilidad para fortalecer y mostrar su fe en orden a vencer sus dudas, cual viene de el adverserio. Yo tenia la oportunidad para dar un bendicion de salud a un nino de una familia quien assistien la iglesia esto Domingo, pero el era bien enferme! Immediatemente despues yo dije las palabras: sellamos este bendicion sobre su cabesa, hagamos en el Sagrado nombre de Jesucristo. Charlie o Carlos me dije: Estoy ya sientido mucho mejor! Eso estaba un milagro de la realidad que viene por el Sacerdocio!! Es cierto, porque muchas veces en mi vida he visto el poder del Sacerdocio del Melquisedec!
Esta cartapor medio correo-electronico sera en Espanglish, disculpen me!
This week we had so much success it was miraculous! I had the wonderful opportunity to baptize one of the investigators of the Sisters' in our ward! It was a sweet experience. It did not go perfectly, because we had to perform the ordinance three times, but it all worked out. I will send some pictures. We had several people at sacrament meeting and we also found a lot of ed people this week, it was truly incredible. We are going to have at least five baptisms this coming month, which is very exciting! I also had the wonderful opportunity to exercise the priesthood authority vested in me to bless the lives of others: investigators, members, and missionaries alike!
The priesthood truly is powerful and if used correctly: miracles are brought forth in a wonderful and immense manner! For this week always remember that we will experience tough challenges, but it is to strengthen our faith and for us to become better instruments as children of our Heavenly Father.  A simple testimony is so much more powerful, than one where you use such advanced words, that it takes away from your declaration of belief!
Mom, I am still awaiting those packages, and I hope everything is going well! Les Amo muchas! Esta obra currentamente esta apresurando cada dia! Es incredible, Yo se que este Evangelio es verdadero y la expiacion de Jesucristo no es solamente un sufrimiento por nuestros pecados, en vez lo es un regalo/ don que Jesucristo nos dio en orden para regressar a Nuestro Padre quien esta en los Cielos! La poder de la expiacion es real, loejercizo en sus vidas y yo lesprometo nuestro Salvador ayudaran todos en sus desafios para que ustedes sepan el voluntad de Dios en esta vida y su proposito!
Que tengan un buen semana,
Les Quiero Mucho!
-Elder Sterling G. Richards su hijo